couple versus bestfriend

i was listening to the radio this morning where these guys were asking everyone to call in and tell them who they would tell their secrets...your best mate or your..well...mate (as in couple as in girlfriend boyfriend) kinnda mate..
this girl called in and said her mate..when the guys asked why she said because is her bestfriend..
from personal experience i think it isent wise to couple with your best friend..
its like putting your king and queen on the same rank on a chess board.
then your opponent puts a rook (a castle) in between the queen and the king with another rook backing it up..
you are forced to move your king because it is more important and the rook eats your queen.
if you dont get it:-
the king represents couple
the queen represents best mate
the rank means 'the same track'
the castle in an obtacle

so what i'm trying to say is (if you still havent gotten the metaphor) is when you couple with your bestfriend when you break up you wont have your bestfriend OR your couple..

it hapened to me..
i broke up with my bestfriend and now he is my ex
now we still talk but we arent that close to each other as before..
a sob story huh?
nah,it was in the beginning but now i'm stronger and i know not to mix friendship wit relashionships..
i learned my lesson the hard way.since the guy in question is probably reading this..i wanna thank him for making me stronger...and that i still think he's ladies skills stink.

i suppose it would only work out if you were married (something i am not about to do...for about...10 to 15 years)
i guess if your husband or wife is your bestfriend then that will work...unless you divorce...
that's wwwwwaaaaaayyyyy outta topic.
but i guess if they do divorce then it'll be wwwwaaaaayyyy more painful then if you broke up with your boyfriend(or girlfriend)

ok..dont be best friends with your couple or husband (or wife..as if any older married people would read my blog)...its like puttin all your heart in a blender...
its...very nearly...suicide
but i got out all right...
in fact i'm STRONGER then yesterday (yes i listened to britney when i broke up..i confess)