couple versus bestfriend

i was listening to the radio this morning where these guys were asking everyone to call in and tell them who they would tell their secrets...your best mate or your..well...mate (as in couple as in girlfriend boyfriend) kinnda mate..
this girl called in and said her mate..when the guys asked why she said because is her bestfriend..
from personal experience i think it isent wise to couple with your best friend..
its like putting your king and queen on the same rank on a chess board.
then your opponent puts a rook (a castle) in between the queen and the king with another rook backing it up..
you are forced to move your king because it is more important and the rook eats your queen.
if you dont get it:-
the king represents couple
the queen represents best mate
the rank means 'the same track'
the castle in an obtacle

so what i'm trying to say is (if you still havent gotten the metaphor) is when you couple with your bestfriend when you break up you wont have your bestfriend OR your couple..

it hapened to me..
i broke up with my bestfriend and now he is my ex
now we still talk but we arent that close to each other as before..
a sob story huh?
nah,it was in the beginning but now i'm stronger and i know not to mix friendship wit relashionships..
i learned my lesson the hard way.since the guy in question is probably reading this..i wanna thank him for making me stronger...and that i still think he's ladies skills stink.

i suppose it would only work out if you were married (something i am not about to do...for about...10 to 15 years)
i guess if your husband or wife is your bestfriend then that will work...unless you divorce...
that's wwwwwaaaaaayyyyy outta topic.
but i guess if they do divorce then it'll be wwwwaaaaayyyy more painful then if you broke up with your boyfriend(or girlfriend)

ok..dont be best friends with your couple or husband (or wife..as if any older married people would read my blog)...its like puttin all your heart in a blender...
its...very nearly...suicide
but i got out all right...
in fact i'm STRONGER then yesterday (yes i listened to britney when i broke up..i confess)

couple versus bestfriend

isent it weird?

aint it weird when you get a haircut that everyone starts noticing?
like i yelled 'look look! my hair!'
and sudenly everyone wont leave you alone?
as if they are starving about things to talk about and start talking about hair...your hair..
god help us...why does everyone wants to criticise?
GUYS!!!! i dont care what you think of my hair!
what i do care about is you shutting your TRAPS!
cant you do that?
for 2 seconds?
just 2 seconds...SHUT UP! i gotta study for my exam and all you can talk about is my hair!!
there you go....i got it out...
now...
i've gotten that put i can now compose my first blog entry.
hi!
i was recently having an exam in my class.
it was raining pretty heavily..
i was done with my paper and i checked it twice..
so i looked out the window and saw this huge tree...
its ripling leaves looked beautiful and the occational lightning strikes illuminated the surface and darkened the depths of the tree..
i wondered what animals hid in the depths of the tree, waiting for danger to pass..
it reminded me of people...
how they hide in the shadows when all goes wrong and come out when sunshine shines
i guess its human nature but it interested me anyway...
some of you might find this boaring..if you do you might as well scoot..
anyway,why is it in times of trouble we hide and save ourselves?
not all of us...but most
why dont we face it and let it make us stronger?
instead they hide and save themselves from any risk?
to me this is stupid.
you always have to take a risk when challenge comes along...
or else what the hell's the point?
you have got to stay strong and face the problem but you have to be flexible to...
its like how in a storm a weed survives from collapsing while the stiff oak goes timber..
the weed bends itself with the wind and yet at the same time it stands its ground...
get the metaphor?
good...now ask yourself...
would you wanna be a weed or an oak tree?
if you answered oak....
you are the biggest idot in the world...
first an idiot because you read this blog.....
the biggest idiot because you chose to read this till the end...
three cheers for yourself...
lol